12 harmful ideas I had about golf (don’t let them get you too)

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These are the 12 things I stopped doing to make golf easy, groovy, and my life a lot more groovy, too. And the first thing I stopped doing was thinking I could possibly ever be as good as Tiger Woods or any of the pros that I looked up to. That held me back a lot thinking I should hit shots like them or I could be as good as them. I didn’t put in the work. I didn’t have the belief. I was I will never ever be as good as those guys. accepting that I’m just a hobby golfer and chillaxing and enjoying my hobby and succeeding elsewhere in life. Wow. Wow. Made me enjoy golf so much more. One of the biggest things I’ve stopped doing is playing for the wrong purpose. Before I used to play golf to compensate for my life outside of the golf course. I wanted to be perfect here cuz life outside was a mess. As I tidied my life out outside the golf course up, my playing purpose became different. I didn’t play to just be a perfectionist on the course. I created a life outside of the course that when I came to the golf course, I didn’t need to be so good. I can just enjoy the walk, enjoy hanging out with people, enjoy the drinks afterwards. And now with YouTube, the ability to have such a wide reach and show people how to score better. Another great purpose to play golf. The other is to sell things. I love selling things. Makes my life really, really groovy. You know what I’m saying? 200 yards here. I’m going to hit my seven iron like a chip shot to give myself a pitching wedge into the hole for the final approach. Biggest game changer in the world. I stopped thinking I can do it all by myself. I have found a help with Eric Chong of Impact Golf Malaysia. I play with pros. I play with mid- handicap, high handicap, low handicap. And all the time I’m learning new things. even high handicappers can teach me to when unintentionally hit the ball hard enough to make it to the hole on chips and I’ll take that away and I think wow I I stop short on my chips a lot of the time and I’ll implement something there but getting professional help like a pro to look at your swing instead of constantly this is the next one looking at reels and things on YouTube about the swing that made the game much easier with stop looking at that because it creates a ball hitter I don’t like ball hitters I don’t like donkeys I like people who score, players, players and donkeys. Donkeys just hit and think that’s how you score. A player knows how to score. That’s why my channel is about scoring. And that made the game so much more fun to know that everything is just a problem-solving equation one after the other. One problem solved creates a new problem to solve. That made the game so much more fun rather than perfect result not attained, upset, more imperfect results, negative death spiral. Imperfect result opportunity to do something to solve the problem and be a show off money. Well, that is lucky. But you know, you got to take the rough with the smooth. I’m saying yeah, I stopped fixating on the outcome of the shot not being perfect. You know, I tied so much emotional turmoil to that shot. And once I let go of it and just focus on that process, my little bubble of a process I take from one shot to the next, once I could do that, I lost that dependence on the outcome of the shot. Once you let go of that outcome and the perfection, it frees my mind to be able to solve the problem next. If I get into that attachment to the outcome, I can’t then solve the next problem because I’m still stuck in this little zone over here of a bad shot. So letting go of it not only frees up your mind to not think about and hit better shots, but when you do hit a bad one, you free up your mind to solve the next one. Really mindbending. Wow. Really bad shot. But now that’s going to finish on the back edge down the slope. I’m already thinking about chipping it on, letting the slope take it down off the left to the hole. I’m already moved on. Absolutely money. I got married long after it was legal for me and my partner to do so. And I really decided now it’s time to start wearing the ring. I thought rings were always uncomfortable until I tried this one. This is the Groove Life tungsten ring. And I want to see what the hype was all about. And you know what? I forget I’m even wearing it sometimes. Now, when I go out, all the babes know, hey, this mother lover is spoken for. Now, what I love about this ring is that it’s super stylish. It fits like a bomb. I absolutely love the ring sizing guide they give you. You can cut out a piece of paper and see what size you are. And this is just absolutely money. And then when I want to play golf, I put on the silicon one so that I don’t feel it digging into my skin while I’m gripping a golf club and under my glove. Absolutely money. This ring is made from durable, scratch resistant tungsten with modern finishes. It has a beautiful inner breathable groove that’s designed for all day wear without discomfort. These rings are made for people who use their hands. Everyday wear, elevated style. Bam. Look at that girl. Look at that body. He works out. The other thing I found with Groove Life was their beautiful belts. Very minimal, minimalistic. I don’t wear belts that often. And you’ll notice I often pick my pants up because, you know, sometimes I lose a bit of weight and I and the pants are coming down. Now I’ve got the Groove Life belt, which just helps me keep those pants up. Get the game on. Beautiful life. What I stopped doing was not wear belts and not wear rings. Now I do. Check the link in the description. Get your Groove Life. Absolutely brilliant. Bam. Like all Groove products, it’s covered by their Groove Guarantee. If anything goes wrong with it, they’ll make it right. That thing of trying to do it all myself. I can tell you right now that is from a perspective of being broke and not just broke with money, which I grew up as. I’m talking about broke with mentality, too. Because that comes with that that scenarios. You also get the broke mentality. Don’t worry, you can be like Lee Travino or Gary Player and work it out from the dirt. No, brother. No, you need expertise. Now, if you’re an adult in a first world country and you’re going to tell me you don’t have money to go get a coach or money to go get some expertise on the short game or something, a 100 bucks here, 50 bucks here. The thing that made it so easy and made my life groovy was to take my money and put it into things that help me. Alcohol doesn’t help you. Drugs don’t help you. Overeing and being a fat ass doesn’t help you. All of those things are a waste of money. subscriptions to dopamine serving freaking subscription services streaming waste of money. Save that stuff for two months. See how much you can refrain from spending. Lose a bit of weight by not eating like a fatty and see how much money you save. That broke mentality of I’m going to be the next Travino is useless. It doesn’t help. He is a different kind of golfer. You’re never going to see someone like Lee Trevino again. Broke mindset is not just money. It seeps into you in every aspect. I can do it. I don’t need none of that stuff. I’m going to Hey, focus that energy real good. Stop wasting time on dopamine cortisol raising nonsense. You can also benefit from coaching. Well, not so easy jumping between left and right hand. But you know what? I’m not angry. I’m in three. Comparing to other people may be the most toxic thing I could do to destroy my enjoyment of golf. I mean, I’m thinking when I came back into golf in Thailand here about seven, eight years ago, this guy’s hitting a freaking nine. Why am I hitting a seven or an eight iron? I didn’t know that the golf clubs had changed lofts after the five or six years I gave up golf. And I was comparing myself and I thought I wasn’t strong enough. I’m trying to hit the ball harder and I’m getting less results. Then I was like, “Oh, hang on. The lofts are different.” And then you see how people are hitting shots on the golf course and you try to emulate that and you don’t really understand the reason why they’re doing it. So when you’re comparing to them and you’re trying to be like them, it doesn’t help. You got to be yourself. I got to be myself. Not comparing to other people made my life really groovy. A real groovy life. And now I put left-handed cuz I don’t care. Didn’t even read it. Didn’t even read it. Didn’t even read it. A humongous one is stopping anticipating the bad result after I’ve hit the shot. But I’m still 200 y, 250 y, 180 y away before I’d really know what’s happened. So I’ll be walking up there. Used to be walking up there. Oh no, I’m going to take a drop and now I’m going to be in a bad lie. Blah blah. I’ve probably gone in the water. You get there perfect lie just short of the water and you’re like in heaven again. So you go through this emotional roller coaster by anticipating the bad stuff. Instead, I just hit the shot and say, “Okay, not great. Now I’ll do better next time.” Get there, deal with the problem when I see the problem, not anticipate the problem. Get myself into a negative death spiral. Huge, huge mind relief. The final thing I stopped doing was buying into other people’s dreams. And that happens on the golf course as well as on this channel. My dream is not to play in Creature Classics, Dingleberry United, whatever big group things they do. I don’t care. The flights there, 56-hour return, paying for my own hotel, my own rental car, and getting a pittance of a of maybe like a $500 check or $800 check to get the opportunity and exposure. What are we talking about? TSA fondling me as I come through the immigration. What do I need that for? I don’t need anything like that. It’s a beautiful weather out here. My dream is to show you how to score better. My dream is to be the greatest thinker of our current time, which is actually happening. And my dream is not to make the PGA tour. I play old man golf, enjoy my day, go home, scratch the dog, fire up the barbecue, cook some meat, have some beautiful fruit. Always available here. I’m living the dream. I don’t need anyone else’s dreams. And that is money. Well, a bit unlucky. Caught it a bit fat, but we got the putt. Come on. Okay, one putter. One of the biggest things I stopped doing was rushing, putting my stuff into the car, throwing the rangefinder, gloves, head cover, driver, whatever that’s loose just in the car somewhere. It rolls under the seat. You don’t know where it is. You come back to play golf and you don’t know where anything is. You got to buy a new glove. You got to buy balls. You got to get a rangefinder, whatever, cuz you didn’t pack it beforehand. Stress-free golf starts with repacking your bag before your next round. So, it’s in the car, you take it in the house, everything’s ready to go at the drop of a hat. I always like to keep a pair of golf shoes or so and another pair of clubs or another set of clubs here in the in the pickup truck in the Hilux pickup truck. I have a golf box over here where we keep some balls. I keep my victory recovery togs, hats, and golf balls. Everything there. Another set of golf clubs in here. Always ready to play. Those are the 12 things I stopped doing to make my life groovy, make golf easy. Check out this video over here for more information on how to be a groovy player.