My Jaw Dropped When My CHEATING Wife Brought AP Into The House And Said We Would Now Live Together

I am completely exhausted the two long weeks on the road associated with the launch of a new international office in London combined with excessive travel have left me drained but the worst part was being away from my girls and the 16-hour Journey back home was a real

Nightmare Even In First Class I hate being away from my girls and my wife I always do but the lifestyle I’ve created for my family makes work challenging due to the high demand my Energy company has grown and expanded to 12 countries 5 years ago I bought out Roger my partner

These past 5 years have been tough but at the same time productive finally I’m ready to relax and enjoy the success since I’ve hired a new president to run the operation while I remain the CEO and owner I plan to share the good news with

The girls as soon as I get home I’m excited because I have more time with my family and friends and I can get back to normal don’t get me wrong I love how my company has grown but deep down my goal has always been to spend most of my time

Watching my girls grow and spending more time with my wife I’m happy that I finally had the chance to step back and enjoy the fruits of my labor and 45 my life may have been stressful but it has always been filled with love and warmth I wouldn’t change a thing and now I’m

Looking forward to the next chapter of my life with my family just 30 minutes from home that is my driver navigated through traffic jams I sat in the backseat of the limousine relaxing and enjoying a second glass of bourbon that I poured from the side mini bar after

Leaving the airport as we pulled into the circular driveway the house appeared quiet but I knew from experience that in a few minutes my girls would jump all over their dad and their mom would greet me with a warm kiss in the promise of a wonderful night in her arms with Dread I

Entered an empty house the only sound was the driver placing my bags in the foyer I called out but there was no response it was strange the girls were always home when I returned from a trip I hoped everything was okay then I saw an envelope with my name written in her

Beautiful handwriting for Jonathan from your beloved wife my dearest Jonathan what an incredible journey we’ve had as husband and wife I’ve treasured every minute of the past six years and eagerly look forward to the next 50 I’ll spend by your side as your beloved wife

Darling you know how much I love you and you are my entire world you are my life and I can’t live without you the love you give me is all I desire and I long to be in your arms every day I’ve missed you so much these past two weeks and I

Can’t wait to see you later tonight there are several reasons for this letter my dear first I want to thank you for being you for giving me these wonderful six years of my life for being an amazing father to our children for the wonderful lifestyle you’ve allowed us to experience and most importantly

For all the love you constantly pour upon me the other reason is something I feel I must share something that has been weighing on me for the past 6 months it’s something I never expected and unfortunately has become a significant part of my life everything you’ve just read is true and I utter

Every word from the depths of my heart what I’m about to tell you is the most difficult thing I’ve ever done no matter how much I love you and I will never stop loving you I have to confess something I pray that you understand and that you won’t be disappointed in me or

Leave me for this I’ve been in a relationship for the last 6 months I don’t feel any feelings or love for this man but we have an intimate relationship the reason I’m telling you now is out of respect and a deep sense of guilt I can’t live with this guilt any longer

And I need you to know that I’ve been unfaithful you will never understand it but I don’t feel love for him just an attraction I can’t explain he does things to me that I can’t put into words and no matter how hard I try I can’t stop myself he’s become my addiction and

I need him in my life please believe that I’ve done everything I can to keep this a secret and not let it affect their lives nothing has changed between us since it started but I understand that it can’t end soon so it’s only fair that you find out everything without

Secrets my love I love and respect you too much to do this please understand that my need for him is purely physical and I won’t let being with him interfere with our love or intimacy I just needed you to know that there’s another part of

Me that I gave to someone else man but this part of me has nothing to do with my love for you and the importance of our family family is the most important part of my life and my number one value nothing will change that our girls are

Staying over at your mom’s place so don’t worry about that and they can’t wait to see their dad in the morning I’m with my friend tonight because I wanted to give you some alone time to read my letter and figure out how things will go from here I’ll be

Home around 10: p.m. and we can continue where we left off as if nothing has changed because nothing has changed dear just remember when you read this that you are the love of my life and I’m yours until death do us part I’m yours darling and I’ll give you everything you

Desire or need thank you for being you and the best husband a girl can dream of with love always and forever your devoted wife sweet after finishing the letter I realized that the bourbon glass I was drinking from was now embedded in the wall I didn’t even remember throwing the

Glass let alone throwing it with such force that some shards remained in the wall the ability to make quick decisions is what led to my success in business and now I was acting out of habit I grabbed a piece of paper and wrote a response letter sealed the

Envelope with her name clearly written on it and placed it on the table next to the one addressed to me I put her letter in my pocket packed some luggage and went up to the girls room to pack clothes for a few days as we had a short

Trip ahead in the car I called my supervisor and told them to arrange a corporate plane for a trip to San Francisco where I would be with my daughters in the near future at 630 that evening I was in my car heading to my parents house to pick up the girls I

Have a corporate apartment next to my office in California where I had already store a full set of clothes and everything needed for an Extended Stay when I arrived at my parents house the girls came running to greet me with big smiles on their faces and 100 kisses

They were happy to see me and I felt like I was smiling for the first time since they got home Daddy Daddy’s back we missed you Daddy and we didn’t expect to see you until tomorrow mom said you wouldn’t be back until tomorrow she was supposed to meet her friend Jamie

Tonight and we came here to see Grandma and Grandpa the girl said I hugged and kissed them in tears streaming down my face from all that love and the realization that their lives were about to change because of their mother the name Jamie didn’t go unnoticed and for a

While I saw it in my memory bank after the girls calmed down I told them I had a surprise and we were going on a trip for a few days flying on the company plane I promised them a fun and exciting vacation convincing the girls was the easiest part explaining something to Mom

And Dad is a completely different story they clearly sense my pain and opposed my taking the girls until I let them read the the letter I explained that I needed some time to get to a safe place to think and plan everything without letting emotions get in the way I left a

Letter for Zoe and told them I would call her from the plane I promised that I would be back in 2 weeks and it was just a short trip and not to worry about the girls as they would be well taken care of when we boarded the plane the

Girls were running up and down the aisle of the 16- seat plane and playing with the flight attendant whom the girls adored Jessica was one of our regular attendants and over the past two years we had become good friends spending hours alone on flights can create friendships with the right people it was

11: at night and the girls had fallen asleep the cabin lights were dimmed and the atmosphere was calm and relaxing that’s why I dialed the home number to speak with Zoe Jonathan where are you honey so he listened attentively don’t interrupt as they might lose signal at

This altitude I know you’ve read my letter and you know the girls are with me they’ll call you in the morning I’ll call you in the next few days to discuss everything call Mom and and Dad if you need anything meanwhile good night I hung up before I could respond the

Flight went smoothly and we landed at 1: in the morning I took the girls to a waiting limousine and sometime later I arrived at my house I talked them in kissed them and 10 minutes later I fell asleep without even unpacking the bags we would have time for that tomorrow

Jennifer 13 and key 15 looked at me with curiosity after the call almost as if the older one had a sad look Mom betrayed you Dad my heart broke hearing her statement holding back tears I simply shook my head and told them to get dressed for

Dinner it was the hardest thing I had ever had to do but I knew with love and support they could navigate the challenges ahead that very morning before the girls woke up I called my family lawyer who’s on the east coast and already sitting in his desk I’ve

Known George for 20 years and we’ve been through a lot together so I told him the story and what I wanted to happen without beating around the bush George I need to know what a divorce will look like and how bad it will be I want to

Get custody of the kids no matter the cost there’s no reconciliation therapy or forgiveness I want this to end as soon as possible I said there was silence on the other end of the line for a long moment I understood and gave him the chance to digest the news he was

Probably as surprised by my words as I was when I read Zoe’s letter Jonathan I’m really sorry that this has happened Kate and I always thought you two were the perfect couple and I can’t understand how she could do this but I understand what you’re asking for do you

Remember when you and Roger founded a company and he insisted on a prenuptual agreement before agreeing to start a business with you do you remember how firm he was about what happened to his last business and how his wife cheated on him well your prenuptial agreement is

Drafted and up to date and if you’ve truly had an affair you gave your rights to the children and any Financial benefits from the marriage for many years as your company grew I set up a prenuptual relationship worked with your corporate lawyers and transferred most

Of your assets to a trust of which you were the beneficiary a house cars bank accounts and Investments everything is under this Untouchable trust this means that if you violated the marriage contract you leave the marriage with what you brought in and lose any rights

To the children I know we didn’t put all this in place for this purpose but it seems like everything will work in your favor George you’re right never in a million years would I have thought she’d betray me and I completely forgot about the prenuptual agreement but George all

I have is a letter confessing her infidelity what more do we need I asked asked well a confession on video or recording from her would help along with some photos or a confession from her lover George can you take care of this while I’m here in California with the

Girls money doesn’t matter and I want to gather evidence as soon as possible I don’t want this to drag on there’s a name girls a guy named Jamie the only Jamie I know is the tennis instructor in our country club you can hire a private investigator and suggest starting there

I’m sure he’ll get in touch with his lover while I’m away of course Jamie the tennis instructor was my sworn enemy they were careless which made it easy for the private company to conduct the investigation with my permission they installed a tracker on his car audio recording devices inside the car and

Video cameras in our house all the evidence obtained through these devices was legitimate because my company controlled them through a trust over the next week they gathered enough audio and video recordings as well as a written confession to proceed with the case I never saw or heard any of the evidence

As I didn’t want those images to haunt me for the rest of my life that of of course it turned out that jime was a womanizer and had to leave his last two jobs because he slept with other married women he was much younger in great shape

And all the ladies at the club were enamored with him so he was just one of the many wives he had an affair with at the club clearly middle-aged married women were an easy target for this club pro George called me 5 days after our initial conversation to update me on the

Progress of the investigation Jonathan we have all the necessary evidence what do you want us to do are you still planning to divorce divorce Zoe without hesitation I replied draft the divorce documents carefully I want Zoe to feel some of the pain she caused me and realize how much she

Messed up we can sort things out and I’ll work from the perspective of professional tennis I’ll be in touch with you I plan to be at home and wait for her after she served on Tuesday George asked are you sure you’re going to divorce her Jonathan as we’re

Speaking now definitely however I have to think about the girls and talk to her before signing the papers it’s tough George and I hope you never have to go through something like this I love this woman with all my heart and I just can’t stop loving her I also hate what she did

To us me and the girls and I’ll never be able to forgive that whatever your decision I’m here to assist Jonathan stay in touch and we’ll notify you as soon as she served we arrived home on Tuesday morning around 9:00 a.m. and the girls were happy to be back home I told them

That after their mom returned from tennis practice I’d like them to stay in their rooms while their mom and I sort of things out I could see they were upset and worried and I did my best to reassure them that everything would be okay 6 months later the divorce was

Finalized and Zoe remained the mother of my two girls I paid for the first three months of a small furnished two-bedroom apartment that was close to our house in the club I also bought her a three-year-old Toyota saying of her drive I knew I didn’t have to give her

Anything but I needed my kids to be able to see their mom whenever they wanted yes the Lamborghini and the luxurious lifestyle were already a thing of the past she gave it all up for some tennis player loser she would never see again being a decent guy like me I even got

Her a job at a country club yes the country club was more than willing to help as soon as I withdrew my lawsuit they agreed to part ways with Janie and assist Zoe with employment if she dropped the lawsuit Zoe was no longer a member of the country club but she was

Now one of the club’s waitresses helping her make ends meet since she had no experience or training for any other job her only option was to get a job as a waitress in a club I’m sure she felt humiliated ated when she went from being

One of the famous club members to one of their waitresses now of course Jamie abandoned her as soon as the lawsuit began in an attempt to keep his job so now she had no one to turn to at home the girls told me their mom cried every

Night for the love and lifestyle she had sacrificed for some selfish needs it took all this for her to realize what she had done and how foolish she had been to think her husband would accept her selfish desires it saddened me how things turned out and I told the girls

That I still love their mom and that they should love and forgive her they remained close and saw mom on weekends later that year when she was picking up the girls we had our first friendly conversation she told me she had finally realized what she had done and begged me

To forgive her for her actions Jonathan I know we’ll never be together again and you’ll never trust me again but I wanted to apologize and beg you to forgive me now I understand what I did and how much I hurt you my life was completely different and I was a spoiled woman who

Didn’t care about anyone else I felt entitled and justify my actions without even thinking about how you would react now I know what I’ve done and what I put you through and I’m so sorry if there was a way to get it all back I would in

A heartbeat losing you was the worst thing that ever happened to me and I miss you and love you so much it hurts I’ve matured over the past year and when I look back I can’t believe how foolish I was to give it all up for my selfish

And entitled attitude I’m so remorseful for ruining everything and I beg you to find the strength to forgive me her confession was sincere and I knew that with time maybe I could forgive her I would never stop loving her she was my life and I had loved her for so many

Years such love cannot be extinguished overnight I hope she had learned her lesson and would remain faithful when that happened they let Jamie go from the club and he eventually moved to South Carolina where a small club in Hilton had arranged for him to be an assistant

To a professional tennis player it only took him a month before he returned to his old ways and started pursuing married women again however the men in South Carolina are a bit less forgiving than in the big city when they caught him with one of the good guys wives it

Didn’t end well about a month later a local newspaper reported a crocodile attack on a golf course over the weekend in the photo showed a 5 meter crocodile’s hand poor Jamie must have gone for a run by the lake and was accidentally caught by one of these crocodiles finally jimie stopped being a

Predator and became prey during one of my lonely nights reflecting on her happy family moments I read a passage that made me think a man’s biggest mistake is giving another man the opportunity to make his wife smile I will never make that mistake again story to write before my wife and

I got married she had a crazy bachelorette party that might have involved things they didn’t want to know about I knew she had wild friends and until she met me she partied with them and had a couple of run-ins with the police as we dated and got to know each

Other she told me that getting older was something she took seriously she didn’t want to continue her life on the path she was on instead she wanted to settle down with a responsible man who made her feel loved and happy I knew I could be

That man for her and I was ready to settle down too I went out with my friends and had some good times but it was never as Reckless as my wife I didn’t see how excessive drinking sleeping around wasting money or petty crime was going to lead me to a bright

Future she looked at the credit card debt she racked up saw the stark contrast of the lives we lived and decided to change her ways I saw her mature and make wiser choices as we spent time together which made me believe this was the real deal she was gorgeous Charming genuine and growing

Wiser thanks to me I was under the impression that I’d met my soulmate and didn’t need to be afraid to commit my wife was ready to take vows with me and start our life together so we got married in the summer of 2019.3 and a half years later I was watching a show

On my phone while she was in the bathroom it was a normal Saturday for us my wife was about to have a girls night out with her friends which was happening about four to six times a month it was more than when we first got married at

First first she didn’t allow these girls back into her life but that’s eventually what happened they started guilt tripping her telling her she was going to be an old maid in her 30s even though she eventually gave in and started going out with them again we had a deep bond

That made me think she was a loyal mature respectable woman I was completely wrong we’ve been talking about her debt but she had trouble keeping a job she was pretty materialistic and found it much harder to earn money than to spend it since I was the only one with a steady job I

Paid the bills and only allowed her a bit of money to pay towards her debt get groceries and go out with her friends then my phone died so I plugged it in and grabbed my wife’s phone to continue watching the show as soon as I opened it message notification started pouring in

From Men on Craigslist I read some of them and discovered they were replying to a recent post about her needing help to pay off her credit card debt I continued reading through the messages and realized she’d been seeing someone else regularly he told her the last night they spent together was

Mind-blowing and he needed to see her again tonight I threw the phone across the room and just laid there processing and thinking through what I had just read I felt like I became a void that might try anything to fill the emptiness before my wife came out of the bathroom

I realized I needed to save screenshots of those messages to prove she was at least talking to other men like this since I had much better credit I bought a marital house completely on my own now that this was happening I feared the worst possible scenario which included

Her taking my home for me after I took two screenshots sent them to my and put her phone back where it was she entered the room and asked if I was okay I could tell she was nervous that I might have seen her phone I said I was

Fine I had to catch her meeting another man to get evidence and help my brain accept that this was real if it was it was so much worse than her spending time drinking with her irresponsible friends arranged for my friend to pick me up and follow her that night first we followed

Her to a Starbucks where she met an anxious looking man who clearly didn’t want anyone to know what they were up to they got got into his car without ordering anything and we followed them into a large neighborhood to avoid being seen we circled around until we saw them

Enter a house the curtains weren’t fully shut so from across the street we saw them into the living room start making out and drop onto the couch I got a little closer to take pictures as my heart pounded and my hands shook then I crouched walked back to the car and my

Friend drove me home during the ride we discussed the disturbing reality of what was happening to me my wife was cheating on me with multiple men for mon he started spreading rumors through his phone to her friends and through them it spread until it reached my wife’s closest and dearest connections they all

Bombarded her with degrading insults and slander telling her she was cut off and they wouldn’t support her terrible and degrading Behavior even members of her family like her twin cousins expressed their disbelief and disappointment she didn’t even try to come home that night or ever again the embarrassment killed

Her she messaged me at 2 a.m. with a heartfelt goodbye in an attempt to get a response out of me or make me feel remorse but it didn’t work I didn’t reply at all because she ultimately betrayed me I never spoke to her again not even in court the last memory I have

Of her is when she broke down crying after receiving a lecture from the judge about honor and loyalty op I am so sorry your wife proved herself to be a very inconsiderate woman first she decided to get into trouble in debt with her friends and then after marriage she

Decided to cheat on you to help pay off that debt if she really cared or loved you she would have considered your feelings and the life consequences of her actions not a true and worthy spouse does the best they can to love and respect the love of their life however

They can when it comes to cheating you’re telling your spouse they don’t hold value in your life and you would be better off without them except it’s worse because you aren’t even directly communicating these things to them instead you’re hiding these truths and giving them a false sense of security

And love you did the right thing by exposing your wife for who she really was obtaining proof and following through with a divorce no matter what they say or do never let a cheater convince you they are worthy of Your Love again I wish you the best of luck

And love in life and thank you for sharing your story story three my wife and I were together for 10 years and had two sons under the age of six my wife was very close to her aging mother and made sure to include her in her family

Life even though she lived in a retirement home once a week we’d all go visit her and bring a collection of our sons toys for them to show her soon thereafter my wife encouraged the boys to make gifts for their teachers and bus driver with Grandma’s

Help at the same time she started taking her mom out to sightsee and spend someone on one time together the routine was she’d get the kids off the bus and then start getting ready to go out over time she started seeing her mom twice a week by herself and every other Sunday

With all of us this was a lot but even still her mom would always say how much she missed us I wondered how that could be if she was taking her out all the time but I just dismissed the thought point one day my wife had gotten the

Kids off the bus and came back inside cheerful as ever she skipped upstairs to get ready for another outing with her mom my boy asked to watch a show so I grabbed my wife’s phone off the charger and noticed several missed calls from my son’s bus driver they were both home

Safe and sound so I couldn’t imagine why there would be so many missed calls from him I tried to call him back but found that my wife changed the lock on her phone Instinct took over as I downloaded an app on my phone to disguise my number

As my wife I set the call to record before I dialed his number as soon as he answered he said hi love are you ready for the special date I promised you I hung up as soon as I heard this I went upstairs to find my

Wife as she got ready and she looked ravishing you could tell she was going on a special date as soon as she saw me she started downplaying how nice she looked and explained that her mom wanted her to take pride in her appearance no matter what the occasion I played the

Recording of the bus driver’s voice and her perfume bottle fell from her hand smashing into pieces on the floor She immediately became desperate begging me to just hold on on a minute and listen to her but I still grabbed the car keys on my way out with the boys I insisted

That she still have HP come get her and never bring her back she was too panicked to cry just hyperventilating insane she would have nowhere to stay because her home was with me and the boys I refused to give in to her I called the bus driver again this time on

Speakerphone he answered in a weary tone I told him I knew what was going on and he needed to come pick up my wife because she belonged to him now he quickly told me to slow down that he was married and he didn’t want to get involved in any drama my wife’s face

Fell when she realized just how bad her situation was I just Shrugged and hung up while my wife started dialing his number in vain just before I left I heard her leave a voicemail telling him he needed to come pick her up and get her a place to stay because this was all

His fault I suppose she continued calling him late into the night until she found his wife on social media and publicly begged her to tell him to call her because she needed to speak with emergency this obviously raised suspicions that led to her discovering the truth my my wife had been dating and

Sleeping with her husband our children’s bus driver for an entire year I had no idea it had been going on at all let alone for so long I felt like an idiot for failing to look into my wife’s whereabouts sooner but I truly believe she was spending time with her mom she

Was but only very rarely does his wife slandered my wife’s name through the school and all over town AP was so ashamed and willing to do whatever it took to gain his wife’s forgiveness he ghosted my wife and even stopped getting on social media he tried in vain to

Prove loyalty to his wife in the hopes things could go back to normal they never did for any of us my wife was morally embarrassed that her lover had given her up at the first sign of trouble and that in her attempts to get his help she broke his family apart and

Made things worse for herself I also jousted her until the visitation schedule was made and I was awarded primary custody her desperate Affair cost her her reputation self-confidence and family she isn’t the same as she was and I doubt she’ll ever be I’m thankful I’m not the one who has to figure out

How to live with myself without my kids because of some stupid mistake that shouldn’t have happened AP even apologized to me explained that when he started seeing my wife he was in a bad place in his own marriage he justified seeing my wife by deciding that he only needed to rely on

Someone emotionally emotional support turned into physical and then before he knew it they were living a double life and got caught red-handed I’m sorry your wife cheated on you with your son’s bus driver I can’t imagine how she didn’t feel extreme guilt and shame for going behind

Your back with someone that played a role in your children’s lives not only that but she used her elderly mother as a coverup the time she spent betraying you with this man could have been time spent improving the quality of her mother’s life after this complete disaster was revealed it’s no wonder she

Experienced grief and slander it’s clear that she didn’t consider the potential consequences of seeing another man in the first place what appeared at first to be her consideration for others and genuine kindness turned out to be the perfect way to hide what she was really doing I’m sorry you were put through

This very real nightmare it is never easy to recover from infidelity but just continue to remind yourself that you and your children deserve better story for a 25-year-old male and my girlfriend 24-year-old female met 3 years ago in a party my fraternity was hosting admitted

I was pretty wild toward the end of my college experience I felt like I had everything figured out in the last semester I was in school I had a huge case of senior I when I met my girlfriend originally I thought it was just going to be a hookup however I

Quickly realized that she and I had something serious between us we started officially dating and we were monogamous toward each other we both graduated and got jobs after college and about a year after we decided to move in together both of us were new in our fields and we

Were doing everything in our power to work our way up dating my girlfriend wasn’t very happy with her job she felt like she was being overlooked a lot of the time and some of the tasks that she was doing seemed disrespectful compared to things some of the other employees

Were doing it ended up paying off for her because she was offered a promotion directly by her boss she had a lot more responsibility and she got quite a large pay raise alongside it the initial job description she gave me didn’t make it seem like she would be spending a lot of

Late nights at the office but every so often I would get a text message saying that she wouldn’t be coming home for dinner I’d offer to bring her food or stop by and help her out so she wasn’t there too late but she always declined I really trusted her so I never thought

Anything was happening I believed everything she said when she told me she was working out a couple of months after she got her promotion she told me that she would be traveling to a conference for work it was going to be across the country in Los Angeles there were a ton

Of things she had always wanted to do and several of them were in California we had talked about vacationing there together before so I suggested that it could be fun for me to take the time off work and join her she quickly shut that idea down I was hurt by how fast she

Rejected it but she just told me that we couldn’t afford the lost time I moved on from that pretty quickly and I was just happy for her that she was finally going to get to go the weeks leading up to her business trip were mostly uneventful a

Few days before she left we got into a small argument about our relationship she had been staying late at work more often and I felt like she wasn’t being attentive so I confronted her about it she was really defensive and tried to tell me that she just had to work harder

Than I did to get places in life our different upbringings have been a point of contention with us in the past but I hated when she brought it up I have been lucky enough to have familial Connections in my industry I grew up in an upper class household

And I was able to afford to go to good schools I was the legacy of my fraternity and I had plenty of contacts thanks to my family my girlfriend didn’t have any of that and she would often throw it in my face as if I didn’t deserve any of the accomplishments I

Made after the argument things were a little awkward but she promised me that we would talk more about it when she got back from her trip I told myself that I was just going to forget about it and let her enjoy her time while she was

There before she left she told me me that she would call me every night that she was in California I had actually been looking forward to it because I was interested to know what she was getting up to the first night she called me and

Gave me a rundown of her entire day she was somewhat jetlagged and exhausted from the plane ride so there wasn’t much to report though on the second day I was waiting by the phone at the time we set aside the call and she never reached out

I ended up texting her to see what was going on but she didn’t reply until the morning she told me she passed out and didn’t set an alarm I accepted that she had given me no reason to doubt that story so I believed it once again the

Following night she never called me I felt kind of foolish just waiting by the phone for her to reach out I ended up getting an invite to a party a friend was throwing so I went to that instead aside from texting every so often I

Didn’t talk to her for the entire 5 days she was in California I was excited for her to come home but at the same time I knew that we were going to have to have a difficult conversation when she finally got back it almost seemed like

She didn’t want anything to do with me the distance between us seemed to have tripled in the short time she was gone I tried to talk to her about it but she just didn’t want to talk it was incredibly frustrating trying to deal with her when she was putting so little

Effort into communicating so I talked to the internet to try to figure out what was going on from everything I could gather it seemed to be a logical conclusion that something might have happened with another person outside of our relationship I didn’t want to believe that she was cheating on me but

I needed to at least rule that out I didn’t know how to ask her about it so the first chance I had to look through her phone I took it we knew each other’s password so it wasn’t hard getting in the difficult part was trying to figure

Out what I was looking I looked through her pictures and I didn’t see anything I didn’t find anything in her recent messages that was alarming I ended up searching through the messages for some keywords that might tip off anything serious going on when I typed in the word together a lot of different

Messages came up however I was able to read from the Snippets of text that there was somebody who had recently messaged her about wanting to be together I clicked on the messages and I read through all of them I didn’t know the man she had been texting but from

What I could gather he was a coworker apparently they had been sleeping together for some time the man was asking her when she was going to leave me I didn’t know if she had told him that she planned to or if he was just assuming that she would I was going to

Make it a lot easier for her and break up with her it was clear that she didn’t want me to go to California with her because she planned on spending the week with him it all made sense why she hadn’t been available to talk to me during that time I felt heartbroken

Initially that was the last thing I expected her to do and I was shocked find out she was cheating when I read about other people in similar situations online I assumed that it just wouldn’t happen to me but I was wrong from their messages I was able to glean that she

And her Affair partner had been fooling around on the job she had done me dirty so I wanted to make things a little more difficult for her I knew how hard she worked to get where she was in her company so I knew how hard it would be

For her to lose it all about a couple of nights passed and I played at cool I stopped pressuring her to talk about the distance between us and I just accepted it one evening she texted me at 4:30 p.m. telling me that she was going to be

Staying late at work I knew that was her basically saying she was staying late at work to sleep with this man I replied and told her that it was okay and that I would put a plate aside for her in the microwave for her to heat up of course I

Took that opportunity to go find proof that she was cheating on me no employer wanted to work with people that were having sex in the offices so I thought if I could get some evidence I could show it to her boss when I walked into the building it was pretty much

Empty aside from a janitor I had to lie and tell him that I was an employee that had forgotten their keys my girlfriend’s office was practically empty though after a minute of snooping I was able to find her and her Affair partner in what was very clearly her boss’s office they

Never did for any of us my wife was morally embarrassed that her lover had given her up at the first sign of trouble and that in her attempts to get his help she broke his family apart and made things worse for herself I also jousted her until the visitation

Schedule was made and I was awarded primary custody her desperate Affair cost her her reputation self-confidence and family she isn’t the same as she was and I doubt she ever be I’m thankful I’m not the one who has to figure out how to live with myself without my kids because

Of some stupid mistake that shouldn’t have happened AP even apologized to me explained that when he started seeing my wife he was in a bad place in his own marriage he justified seeing my wife by deciding that he only needed to rely on someone emotionally emotional support

Turned into physical and then before he knew it they were living a double life and got caught red-handed I’m sorry your wife cheated on you with your son’s bus driver I can’t imagine how she didn’t feel extreme guilt and shame for going behind your back with someone that played a

Role in your children’s lives not only that but she used her elderly mother as a coverup the time she spent betraying you with this man could have been time spent improving the quality of her mother’s life after this complete disaster was revealed it’s no wonder she experienced grief and slander it’s clear

That she didn’t consider the potential consequences of seeing another man in the first place what appeared at first to be her consideration for others and genuine kindness turned out to be the perfect way to hide what she was really doing I’m sorry you were put through this very real nightmare it is never

Easy to recover from infidelity but just continue to remind yourself that you and your children deserve better story for a 25-year-old male and my girlfriend 24-year-old female met 3 years ago in a party my fraternity was hosting admitted I was pretty wild toward the end of my college experience

I felt like I had everything figured out in the last semester I was in school I had a huge case of senior I when I met my girlfriend originally I thought it was just going to be a hookup however I quickly realized that she and I had something serious between us we started

Officially dating and we were monogamous toward each other we both graduated and got jobs after college and about a year after we decided to move in together both of us were new in our fields and we were doing everything in our power to work our way up dating my girlfriend

Wasn’t very happy with her job she felt like she was being overlooked a lot of the time and some of the tasks that she was doing seemed disrespectful compared to things some of the other employees were doing it ended up paying off for her because she was offered a promotion

Directly by her boss she had a lot more responsibility and she got quite a large pay raise alongside it the initial job description she gave me didn’t make it seem like she would be spending a lot of late nights at the office but every so often I would get a text message saying

That she wouldn’t be coming home for dinner I’d offered to bring her food or stop by and help her out so she wasn’t there too late but she always declined I really trusted her so I never thought anything was happening I believed everything she said when she told me she

Was working out a couple of months after she got her promotion she told me that she would be traveling to a conference for work it was going to be across the country in Los Angeles there were a ton of things she had always wanted to do and several of them

Were in California we had talked about vacationing there together before so I suggested that it could be fun for me to take the time off work and join her she quickly shut that idea down I was hurt by how fast she rejected it but she just

Told me that we couldn’t afford the lost time I moved on from that pretty quickly and I was just happy for her that she was finally going to get to go the weeks leading up to her business trip were mostly uneventful a few days before she

Left we got into to a small argument about our relationship she had been staying late at work more often and I felt like she wasn’t being attentive so I confronted her about it she was really defensive and tried to tell me that she just had to work harder than I did to

Get places in life our different upbringings have been a point of contention with us in the past but I hated when she brought it up I have been lucky enough to have familial Connections in my industry I grew up in an upper class household and I was able

To afford to go to good schools I was the legacy of my fraternity and I had plenty of contacts thanks to my family my girlfriend didn’t have any of that and she would often throw it in my face as if I didn’t deserve any of the accomplishments I made but unfortunately

I had walked the divorce Road in my early 20s straight to I guess not planning to get a third one anytime soon wishing all of you living with this crap the best remember to call your prenup an equitable marriage contract since it doesn’t have the same stigma the lawyer

Said they are way more common now than people think now for the Second Story my wife cheated with the arcade mascot at our son’s birthday party you never truly appreciate the word normaly until life throws you into the deep end of absurdity as I learned on that fateful

Day even a child’s pirate themed birthday party can serve as the stage for such Oddities it was the day I saw my wife Jennifer a woman I belied to be my soulmate in the Unfaithful Embrace of a pirate mascot at our son’s birthday party our son David was absolutely

Enamored with the local pirate themed arcade Pirates plunder and he had only one request for his 6th birthday a pirates plunder party Jennifer and I were more than happy to oblige the venue was fantastic with a sprawling arcade floor themed party rooms and two mascots a pirate named captain cutless and a

Friendly shark named scalawag they were hits among the kids especially David the day of the party was bright sunny and filled with anticipation Jennifer had really gone all out making sure everything was ship shaped pirate themed invitations skull and crossbones balloons even a treasure chest cake the children were thrilled laughter and Mart

Filling the air as kids ran around earning tickets and competing for the highest scores on the arcade machines David was having the time of his life and Jennifer seemed to be in High Spirits too her eyes sparkled as she watched our son enjoying himself her laughter mingling with the children’s

The moment should have been perfect until I noticed something odd captain cutless in all his oversized overstuffed Glory was paying more attention to Jennifer than the kids she was laughing at his jokes posing for pictures and even partaking in some playful banter I Shrugged it off initially attributing it

To the festivities infectious energy But as time passed their interactions seemed less innocent I tried to brush it off telling myself I was imagining things until I saw them sneak off into a door labeled employees only my heart pounded in my chest as I quietly made my way

Towards the door careful not to attract any attention with a deep breath I pushed the door open only to find Jennifer and Captain cutless in a passionate embrace A Rush of shock anger and disbelief washed over me the image was forever imprinted in my mind Jennifer in the arms of the pirate

Mascot I roared charging at Captain cutless my fist connected with the mascot’s oversized padded head knocking him into a stack of cardboard boxes my wife Jennifer gasped her face turning pale as she realized she’d been caught Chris she started but I was in no mood to listen I grabbed her arm and

Practically dragged her out of the back room ignoring her please for me to calm down I was seeing red my heart pounding a ferocious rhythm in my chest re-entering the party we plastered fake Smiles on our faces refusing to let our personal drama overshadow our son’s big

Day we Cut the Cake sang and laughed but it was all a bitter performance once the party ended and we’d packed everything into the car the silence was deafening we didn’t speak until we were back home David tucked into bed with his face smeared with the remnants of his

Birthday cake Jennifer tried to explain to justify but her words fell on deaf ears I felt cold Fury burning inside me every word she spoke was a reminder of her betrayal it was a stupid mistake she said tears streaming down her face a mistake Jennifer you don’t just

Accidentally cheat on your husband with a goddamn pirate mascot I snapped my voice echoed through the Silent House mirroring the hollow ache in my chest I don’t know what I was thinking I’m sorry she whispered her eyes pleading for forgiveness I wanted to believe her to take her in my arms and forget

Everything but the image of her with Captain cutless kept replaying in my my mind sorry doesn’t cut it Jennifer I said my voice flat you broke us you broke our family I messed up Chris she sobbed I know I messed up please letun talk about this for David but I was past

The point of discussion the woman I loved the mother of my son had betrayed our marriage our family I didn’t trust myself to make any decisions In the Heat of the Moment but one thing was clear I needed space’ll talk tomorrow Jennifer I said a sense of it in my voice tonight

I’m sleeping in the guest room Jennifer nodded tears still streaming down her face I left her in the living room her sobs echoing behind me a haunting reminder of the day’s events that night as I lay in the guest bedou supposed to be able to trust your family and your

Wife completely disregarded that she was extremely selfish when she slept with the boyfriend I think you did the right thing by telling your sister-in-law from what it sounds like she was working really hard to support the life she had with her boyfriend and he was cheating

On her both of you deserve so much better than the partners you had I think it’s great that you’re still in touch with her family especially knowing that she is barely in touch with them I really hope that you and your former sister-in-law can find ways to move past

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